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When Belonging Requires Self-Abandonment, It Is No Longer Belonging
A woman sits on a rock, gazing at a serene sunset, surrounded by signposts labeled "People Pleasing," "Self-Abandonment," "Trying to Fit In," and "Ignoring My Boundaries," with one pointing to "Choosing Myself," emphasizing the theme of self-acceptance over forced belonging. There was a time in my life when belonging meant being part of something. A community. A practice. A group of people who shared similar interests, values, and experiences. I believed that being part of a
Julie Jewels Smoot
Oct 136 min read


Reclaiming My Power: Healing Does Not Mean Giving Anyone Access to Me
A woman stands triumphantly against a vibrant sunset, symbolizing empowerment and healing, with the words "Reclaiming My Power" and a reminder that healing doesn't mean giving away one's personal boundaries. There comes a point in the healing journey when something begins to change. Not necessarily in a dramatic way. Sometimes there is no breakthrough, no extraordinary moment of clarity, and no sudden feeling that everything has finally been resolved. Sometimes the change is
Julie Jewels Smoot
Oct 135 min read
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